sleek, and some introspection



After having skipped a whole bunch of Miss Berry’s memes, this one spoke to me, so I’m going to answer as best as I can!

  1. Regardless of your current number, how old do you actually feel? – I’m feeling like I’m in my thirties, and that’s a good age to be for a woman. You finally know what you don’t want (much more important than knowing what you want!), you’ve grown (hopefully) to accept yourself and how you look, you’ve found your style (or at least have a good idea about it). You’re more settled in yourself, and this is a good time to find someone who loves you just like you are.
  2. Which is worse, failing or never trying? – Definitely never trying! I’ve learned so many things by just trying them out and discovering that I like doing them, my life would be much poorer without them!
  3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? – I would try to love more, to sing more, be a bit more adventurous and travel more.
  4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? – For me, it’s all about doing things right – which by no means is about what others think is right or good, but about what I think how it should be. I’m a freakin’ perfectionist, which is sometimes nice, but more often a chore. Lately I’m trying to be contented with about what I perceive as 80% perfection, because I’ve read somewhere that’s a good measure! Can’t say yet if I’ll succeed…. :D
  5. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton? – As I’m constantly worrying about one thing or another (perfectionist, remember?) anyway, I’d say worried genius.
  6. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend? – I have to admit that I’m extremely self-sufficient, and my friends and partner have to be tolerant about me needing a lot of time for myself, and my forgetfulness, and me not often calling or in case of SL, never IM’ing…. I guess I’m a difficult person to be friends with! On the other hand, my RL bestie and I have been friends now for over 30 years, and we know we care about each other even if we only talk once a month!
  7. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset?  – Yes, I remember, and it still matters.
  8. At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive? – My hobbies include singing and acting, and though I haven’t been on stage much, that always were times when I felt extremely alive!
  9. If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job? – Yes I would, buy a nice house with a garden, give a home to another dog and then I’d go and try to learn all the things I always wanted to learn (with the luxury of private teachers!)
  10. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today? – I’d try to get all my loved ones to one place and spent the day with all of them!
  11. What do you feel is the difference between being alive and truly living? – Being alive is merely about going through the motions, truly living is about savouring the moment, sharing, compassion, spending times with the people you love and learning and doing things you love.
  12. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake? – Because making mistakes often hurts, and often not only oneself but others, too. I’m not afraid of standing by my mistakes, though. And sometimes, what looked like a mistake at first was a blessing in disguise…
  13. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you? – I would try to not be so damned polite and considerate all the time. Unfortunately I tend to very often bite my tongue, even when things matter to me. It would be much more healthy if I just would tell people exactly what I think from time to time!
  14. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? – Just live, go your own way and don’t care too much about what others think or say about your more crazy ideas!


ILLMATIC :: Stefani – T2/ Brows-Blonde. (at Singer Icon Fair 2)

[KoKoLoReS] BP – Eyeliner Collection – 02-03

*REDGRAVE*Eyelashes -16- Elemental

Pink Acid Mascara On My Lashes Top Alpha Eyelashes

.tsg. Luminate – Hazel eyes

[PXL] OpenMouth PRO Teeth v2.0

[KoKoLoReS] BP – Lip smoothie magenta

(Chemistry) Hair – Willow 2 (sleek)(Rigged)

(Chemistry) Hair – Willow 2 short bangs (Not Rigged)

e! Vest Dress (Berry Vest)

Steffen Garcia – SOYEUX Charcoal shoes (at Shoetopia 2013 Sim 2)

LaGyo_Shield rings silver/white Lhand

[7891.] Menthe – 1 – Silver ring

[7891.] Poly – 1 – Silver ring

[Iruco] gacha / blow glasses (pk)

Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands + ILLMATIC T2 skin appliers + je suis french nails applier

Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) medium+ ILLMATIC T2 skin appliers +AE pantyhose sheer appliers


[KoKoLoReS]{sexy & cute}first look

[KoKoLoReS]{ sexy & cute }thinking about him


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I couldn’t resist and had to style another one – it’s the beginning of the month, and all those fabulous events, and so much to show you! :)

The lovely Wednesday skin I’m wearing is from Essences and you’ll find it at TDR Fusion. Most of my other new things are from the new round of FaMESHed – jacket, skirt, hair and shawl! Happy shopping!


Essences – Wednesday Candy *light rose* (blonde) (at TDR Fusion)

.ploom. Lashes Tattoo 01

ROZENA ~Freckle & Beauty Marks Set~ lil bit

[UMEBOSHI] Rue eyes Bicolour -Cold Heart-

/Wasabi Pills/ Fay Mesh Hair – Golden (at FaMESHed February)

Tee*fy Collar Snood FlutterHearts (at FaMESHed February)

Emery – Mesh Leather Jacket Saul Bark (at FaMESHed February)

erratic / basics – racerback / brights pink

e! Chloe Skirt (Cherry) Silver Zips (at FaMESHed February)

Pink Acid Polka Dot Leggings (pink)

Ingenue :: Ariane shoes :: Cherry

LaGyo_Lost crystal ring Silver

LaGyo_Wishbone necklace silver

[PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular

poses by:

illmatic_Nasty Gal Stance – 01

illmatic_Nasty Gal Stance – 02


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a different me

a different me

a different me2

This is the first time ever I styled a look wearing a black skin – because I’m pale skinned in RL, I have been pretty much been sticking to fair/pale/medium skins in SL. I know from a few discussions on plurk that most people seem to do that, even though SL gives you the chance to look anyway you want to…. strange, isn’t it?

I feel very beautiful in this skin and outfit, so I might play a bit more from now on! :)


Izzie’s – Eliza Skin ebony

.ploom. Lashes Tattoo 01

[PXL] OpenMouth PRO TEETH v1.3

.ID. Darkest Browns / Black 2 eyes


e! Grace Turtleneck (Midnight)

Blueberry Frensas *Mesh* Leather Skirt Evergreen

{SYL} Sheer Leopard Leggings (at fi*Friday)

2Real – GLYDERZ shoes

MG – Fur Boa – Natalya – Black Bear

[North West] The ‘Stache double loop ring (silver/black) S (no longer available)

[PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular

[tea.s] – Cup (wear) [My coffee dreams poseprop]

poses by:

Tea.s My coffee dreams

!bang stand 203


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